Interesting discussion being had on Facebook: "Is Amy an atheist?" What's so interesting, I think, are the unquestioned assumptions coming out about what/who G-d/God/god is/isn't.
"Amy doesn't believe in God? She's an atheist."
Okaaaay...but just because I don't think
that particular God is real doesn't necessarily make me an atheist. You know that, right?
I realize that I'm an atheist by the incredibly narrow understanding currently recognized by both the religious and atheist communities. I'm fine with that because, in addition to covering a large part of my thinking, there's also nothing wrong with being an atheist. We're good people. Facebook Christians who are leering and spitting at me -- well, they have issues, let's leave it at that.
But it bothers me that the
atheist community is so inflexible with its definitions of things. If I'm in a feminist environment, online or in person, I can play with definitions and identity as much as I want. I can be a radical libertarian post-third wave feminist; I can be in a heterosexual relationship and identify as queer.
However, atheism, in its current incarnation, is about absence, not presence, and destruction of religious identity rather than construction of a nonreligious identity. And I don't like the type of atheists who are so proud that they DO NOT BELIEVE (all caps because that's how I feel they are announcing it) without addressing the social role of shared community and rituals or the quintessence of being human (whether you want to call it spirituality or not, it's a transcendence we've all experienced at some time or another).
Love is a verb, so why can't G-d be a verb? Be a process, not a person? Be a symbol, not an idol? Aren't these questions that should be discussed by people who don't subscribe to traditional religious notions? Aren't they questions that are at least a little bit important for their own merits?
If I can't dance, I don't want to be part of your revolution.